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It is undeniable that the world The Ultimate Paracord Survival Kit Review has changed. Well, maybe. Some people are in denial about that because the stresses of the changes we have experienced in the last 10 years are overwhelming and they're rocking all our boats. If the world has become overwhelming for adults, who are the 'regulatory agents' for children? Who is in a regulated oxytocin-enriched calm place and able to nurture children in the ways they should go? How can we be calm in the midst of what is going on in the world?

With our economy falling apart, many grandparents and great-grandparents raising children, and concerns about terrorism, our survival system is staying on edge? How do children learn to calm and regulate their stress when the adults around them are on edge, worried, and reactive? How can adults not be reactive when the pressures to perform, adjust, and deal with an ever-growing complex world continue to grow daily? If our experiences as children were not very regulatory then, how do we teach our children the regulatory way? We can't give what we didn't get, so how do we get it so we can give it?

Our session is up and my 4 year old client doesn't want to leave. I breathe. I acknowledge his difficulties. He wants to stay and play but our time is up. I start walking to the door. He follows stomping. His mom says sternly, "Don't do that!" He looks at her and keeps stomping. Leaving is a major transition issue for him. He looks at me and says, "I am mad at you," as he stomps out of the office slamming the door. I keep breathing. I let mom know that I am not offended by his "attitude". We have talked about his transition challenges which trigger this attitude, not just with me but everywhere he goes. She sighs and gives me a weak "Okay, see you next week." She has just begun to learn this new way of working with children and still doubts its validity. I call later to see how he is doing. He is fine. He is outside playing. She didn't get onto him on the way home. He settled fairly quickly this time.

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At our next session he brings a small package with two muffins in it and shares one with me. We play for a while. Before we go on to another activity he asks if his time is up. I say no, so we play longer. When it is time to go he puts down his toys and walks out the door, lingering by the snack basket and asks, "Miss Deborah, can I have a snack?" "Of course you can," I say, then add, "It would be really mean of me to put snacks there and not let you have one." He agrees and leaves. His mom stares at both of us.