What Is Your Relationship Fingerprint?

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The guys I know who are the best with the ladies aren't the most physically attractive of my friends. How is this possible? Surely if a guy is amazingly good looking then he will have no trouble with the ladies right? Well get ready for a shock, as Erect On Demand Review I am about to tell you something that may rock the very core of your being. Woman don't care how you look. Fact.

I'll give you two scenarios. You meet one girl, very beautiful, long brunette hair, smooth skin, nice breasts, amazing body, awesome girl to be around, but is a little shy and insecure and likes to stand in the background when it comes to social situations. You meet another girl, she is ugly, over weight, has acne, but is rich and loves to be the centre of attention. Which girl would you go for?

If you are anything like the thousands of men I have asked this to, then you would have said the beautiful girl, because guys put a greater emphasis on looks than woman. We don't care if a beautiful woman isn't confident because http://explorereading.net/erect-on-demand-program-review/ we place greater importance on looks. But for a woman, it's the complete opposite. For a woman, the reverse is true. They would take the ugly confident man over the shy beautiful man every day of the week, and although they might not admit this to you openly, as they too are lost in the sea of social conditioning, they will definitely respond emotionally to a confident man and will rationalise it with the quote, "there is just something about him."

I know this may astound you, and I know this may make all the excuses you keep telling yourself redundant, but if you begin to look around and look, you will quickly realise this to be true. But I know what you are saying, "but Saxon, girls love Brad Pitt and George Clooney because they are good looking, how could this be true?" And I will say that sure, social ideals will see these guys as good looking, and they will be movie stars because of their looks, but I guarantee you that it's the confidence these guys have from being socially idolised that makes them attractive to woman. Brad Pitt is charming, confident, walks into a room and everyone just looks at him, but even if he wasn't physically attractive, if he had these qualities, women would still flock to him!!

Tyler from RSD sums it up perfectly, "If you look like James Bond, it's easier to act like James Bond." If society has given you permission to act in a certain way based on your looks, then you will feel less social pressure to act in these confident ways. But if you are not physically attractive, and act like James Bond, you will get the success of James Bond too. How many of the rock stars in the world are good looking guys? Not many, they are just bad ass charismatic dudes who are the life of the party, and that is what gets them laid. This is what women respond to.

Woman are never looking at you with a rational mind and asking themselves, "Is he attractive enough for me?" Instead, they are feeling, and if you are acting confident, charming, and oozing a fun and cool vibe, then she will feel emotionally drawn to you, and this is attraction.

But this is easier said than done. To break down the belief that looks matter to a woman can be a long process, so here are 3 ways to get you started on the journey of self-destruction and rebirth.

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1.) Go Out & Talk To Girls: Get off the computer, close down the internet and get out there and start interacting with the opposite sex. You can't internalise this belief by thinking about it. You need to get out there and start socialising. The more you do this, and the better you get at talking, the more you will begin to realise that girls are actually enjoying your company, and it's not because of what you look like.

2.) Make A Fun Vibe The Priority: Don't go out there, stand against the wall, with a drink pressed to your chest, trying to look cool. You will see these guys lined up at any bar or club in the world trying to look like James Bond. They think if they dress up, look handsome, and stand there with a serious look on their face that a girl will magically appear in front of them, but this just isn't true. It's the guy that is having fun, laughing with people, talking with people, and just bringing an awesome vibe to the table that will have the woman swooning. If this is too much for you at this stage, then just go out and look around. Who are the woman talking to? Look around and try and locate the guys who are having the most fun. What do they look like? How about the guys that are just standing there alone. What do they look like? You will eventually begin to realise that having fun, and just being a carefree guy will trump looks anyway of the week.

3.) Rinse & Repeat: This takes time. It can take up to 90 days for a new belief to be worked into the subconscious. So you must go out several times a week, for at least 3 months, to start seeing a change in your behavior. As you begin to change, your mind will start to look for situations to validate the new belief, and it will just get pushed further and further into your subconscious until it becomes your reality.

So get out there and stop focusing on your looks. The cooler guy you become, the more girls will like you. This is pure fact and it's something that is reinforced to me over and over again with my years of experience.