Maestro de la Seduccion Programa Keep Your Ego Under Control

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A day comes when we want more than a one night stand. Good relationships start, and continue, with good communication. There is a price to pay but it is well worth it. The first requirement is to get your ego under control. By ego I mean that part of ourselves that makes us say "I". This is the center of our soul. If we don't pay attention it could become a spoiled brat. Here is an example. You see somebody washing a car (or peeling vegetables) and you say: "I can do that much faster than you." Let's assume that it was correct. You could also have said: "You are doing a good job." That also was correct.

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The difference is who gets the ego gratification. If you have your ego under control you have the possibility to make others feel good. If you don't, your first concern is to satisfy the little brat. He does not care what others feel like. He wants his ego massage like kids want candies: Plenty of it and right now. He makes you use the people around you for the sole purpose of making him feel good. Can you imagine what it must feel like when your date uses you as a tool to scratch his back? You may think that it does not show. Mistake! Women are very intuitive. They feel it even before you start talking. You are not going to fool anybody.

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You are not alone in this predicament. Look at the newspapers. They are full of people looking for ego massages. What you need is to get out of this mob. There is a way. The first step is to get conscious of what is going on. Your ego may be like a pair of sun glasses on your nose. They color everything you see and you may not even be aware of it. You feel free when in fact the spoiled brat governs your life. You are under the influence! What you say, the way you get dressed, the people you associate with, the things you buy... many aspects of your life may be prisoner of your ego. Aren't you tired of being used by the brat? Aren't you tired of letting other people decide when you are happy and when you feel frustrated? Get out of that jail!